I am a 57-year-old RN Case Manager, who lives in Grand Rapids, Michigan. I have two grown children, Casey (27) who is married to Ronny, and Matty (24), who lives in Holland, Michigan.
I was part of the 2018 Greece trip. I needed that trip!
Last year, on January 6, (2018) my older sister, Karla, passed away very unexpectedly. She was single, never married, had an amazing professional career in nursing, and lived in Cary, North Carolina. She had just been home to Michigan (where I live) for the holidays, so I had just seen her. We were so shocked and saddened by her death. Karla was a strong Christian, and without a shadow of a doubt, I know she is celebrating in Heaven. The next several months was such a blur for me and for my family..traveling to North Carolina for a Memorial Service, settling her financial affairs, and lovingly going through her belongings so we could list her house and sell it. Eventually, my sister, Kristen and I drove her car to Michigan for my parents. 5 trips to North Carolina in less than 5 months! There was not really any time to grieve, or even think about grieving.
My daughter, Casey, and her husband, Ronny, work for Adventures in Missions. Their office desks used to be situated near Betty Means and Mama C (Carol), who also worked for AIM at that time. In February, Casey mentioned the Women’s Walking Journeys, led by Carol and Selena. Casey encouraged me to contact Carol, and think about “taking time out for me”. I had a lovely conversation with Carol, and that convinced me to sign up for the “me trip.”
I trained for the trip by walking and walking, and, by praying that I would be given the energy to not only participate, but to also to thrive on this journey! I reluctantly purchased walking sticks and “practiced” using them on the flat streets of Grand Rapids, Michigan! SO glad I did. They were an awesome help as we navigated the sometimes rocky and uneven terrain on the islands.
I could write volumes on what the actual trip meant to me. In a nutshell, meeting this group of women, praying with them, sharing my story, allowing myself to lean in on someone, was a true gift! I cried, I laughed, I walked silently, and yes, I actually EXHALED.
I didn’t lead, I didn’t organize, I didn’t plan…the only thing that became a “happy accident” was that I seemed to have a rather uncanny ability to find the “Red Dot” that guided our way on the rough, hilly, remote terrain of the island countryside. Hence, I was lovingly given the nickname, “Dottie”.
I have been a Christian for a long time. I have been in leadership positions at my local church. I have participated in Parent trips led by Adventures in Missions. I am at a time in my life where I have the opportunity to really dive in and get involved in programs that can further God’s Kingdom. But, I needed time to grieve. I needed time to cry and to laugh and to tell stories about my sister. I needed time to heal. I still need time for all of those things.
I believe that the Greece trip was my springboard for starting the healing process so I can be ready for what God has in store for me. In fact, my sister Kristen and I are signed up to go on the Ireland trip in September!
So, think about it…put your toe in the water…jump in…dive in…or do a cannon ball (yes, I love the water)…JUST DO IT!
Participant in Greece 2018